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Dear K. it is very understandable why you are feeling so insecure about both the wedding and your ability to be a mother at the moment my dear! At this time in a girl's life it is difficult to think positively or to be completely comfortable with what is happening, and the wedding is also always a 'big deal' in everybody's life if they are truly connected to their loved one and really wishing to be together that the rest of their lives. I think you have to get things into perspective at this point, and really think why you are getting married (is it to have children together, or is it to be with your loved one for the rest of your life?) And if it is to have children, or this is the most important reason for you are getting married, then I would suggest that you begin to investigate now what could be causing you not to conceive at the moment.

Just worrying about it and thinking about the worst will have a negative effect on you anyway my dear, and perhaps if you can go to your doctor and talk about it, talk about the weight problem and see if there is anything that you can suggest about that, then at the very least it will put your mind at rest for the moment. As you say, there are many women who appear to be overweight who have children, and this is not always a factor in infertility... and we have to bear in mind that it is simply may be your worrying about it because of past history that is causing the problem now. I strongly suggest that you try get as much information as you can before your wedding, so that you can have a beautiful and joyous occasion without the worry of not being able to conceive in the future.  And please remember, there are many things that can be done to help this situation, but I believe one of the most important is that you remain positive, and try not to make your mind up beforehand that things are going to go wrong for you.

I see you in your beautiful dress having a wonderful wedding K! and I wish you all that is good and beautiful on your special day!  With many bright blessings, Crystal x

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Hi, my name is S and I am in the worst depression I have ever been in, its been almost suicidal. I got involved with a man about a year ago, and I thought things were great, then one day I looked at his phone when he was in the shower and saw that he had been seeing a gal that he had met at my work one night when he was up seeing me. He lied to me and told me that he hadn't been seeing her, and I forgave him, then about a week later he told me that he didn't know what he wanted, and that I was the truest friend that he has ever had, and he loves me, but as his best friend, and he needed time to figure things out. I couldn't let go, and we have been fighting most of the last 3 months. He still says he wants to be friends, but I want so much more. I sacrificed a lot for this relationship. I don't know what to do, or how to let go, and it is literally killing me. Please help me.  Thank you 

 

Dear S. I am so sorry that you are going through such a dreadful time right now.  And there is very little that I can say to you to make you feel better.  I took out two tarot cards to you to see if they shed any light on this problem S, firstly the five of swords which tells me that you have no power in this situation at the moment, other than to walk away from it all together for at least the moment!  The second card I took out was the world, which tells me that things could change very quickly and entirely within the next few weeks. My feelings surrounding these two cards is that this guy has been thrown into a complete state of confusion as he is very attracted to the other girl, but at the same time there is a deep soul connection between you and him, I believe his attraction to the other woman is on a purely physical level you will find.  This is not to say that he does not find you physically attractive S, but she has a very strong attraction for him in another way for some reason. This could be a temporary thing and he may very quickly reversed his feelings and be back with you, but it really depends on how you feel about all this apart from being totally devastated?  Very few women could accept the situation S and give him time and space to make his decision, but I fear that this is perhaps the only answer if you wish to continue with the relationship.  The other answer being to simply walk away!  Although he still wants your friendship and your support, I think you would find this impossible to give him in the circumstances, and it could break your heart trying!  We are sending you a distant healing from Silvermoon over the next month to help you get over this heart-wrenching time.  With sympathy and blessings!  Holly x

 

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Hi! I do hope you help me I seem to be going through a period of depression for no real reason except that my father passed over 6 years ago and every year at this time I feel empty. I know he is still with me because I feel when I am stressed he always talks to me, but I cannot get over the depression at this time of year. I cannot talk to anyone about how I feel it causes to much pain.  I cant concentrate on my work and just appear to muddle through. I do not want to see a doctor, I just feel totally empty and do not know what to do, every year it seems worse than the previous year. Can you help

 

Hi P. thank you for your e-mail.  It is natural to be sad at the time of year where a beloved parent has passed over, and to some extent it will be always quite difficult for you my dear. However I think that there is more to this than just the grieving for a beloved parent! It occurs to me reading your e-mail that you may well be suffering from SAD syndrome. (Seasonal Affective Disorder) Some people seem to think that this is just a slight bit of depression because it's winter time and we can't get out and do much, but believe me it is a recognized disorder which affects many people because there is simply not enough light!

I have found this website for you P, which gives you all the information you may need about this condition, and please note how like what you are describing the symptoms are!! The website is at:- www.sada.org.uk and it is full of information and suggestions as to what will make this condition more tolerable during the winter months.  If you prefer to contact the organisation by mail the address is below. I would really encourage you to investigate this as a possible cause of your depression at this time of year.  With blessings! Crystal X.

SADAssociation  PO Box 989  Steyning  BN44 3HG  England

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Dear Crystal, I was involved with a guy who left me very suddenly and basically disappeared. He gave me no explanation. I have now found out that he is in a relationship with another person. I am unsure whether he ever had feelings for me or if he was just using me. I feel that I am very much in love with him, and a part of me has been ripped away. I am afraid that he will never be apart of my life again, or if he did come back that he would just leave me. How do I move on from all this hurt and confusion? N.

 

Dear N, this guy, being a Cancer, obviously had strong feelings for you, but could not cope with the pressures of your relationship. These Cancerian’s find it very hard to express themselves at times, because they are generally shy and timid, and their emotions get blocked inside the shell that they use for self-protection. If he did attempt to come back to you, then the relationship would have to change. But you are Taurean, and don’t like change unless it suits you. Perhaps this relationship was doomed before it started, because Taurus and Cancer is never an easy mix. If you really want to get over him, then I believe that you should be looking for a strong and adventurous Fire sign, like Leo or Sagittarius. Another option would be an earthy Virgo, or Capricorn, both of which are steady and hard working people. Blessings! Angel-Rose X

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Dear Shannon, I see by your Birth date that you are a family oriented and loving person, who will do all that you can to protect your family, especially the children.

So I can see your problems Shannon, and sympathise with you on these matters. The past troubles that you have had are gone now, and in time will influence you less and less, although it may not feel as if that is so at this moment. I understand some of the pain that you carry with you, and I know that you will heal as the years go by, with help from others. Everyone deserves to be happy at some point in his or her lifetime, and yours I believe is not too far ahead in the future. The time will soon be here when you must make choices and plans for the future. These choices are important, and should be thought through carefully. Ask yourself, what do you want for yourself and the children, what can you do to get it, how to change the situation that you are in, and how to improve the future of the children. It is getting less difficult to get out of an abusive relationship now, and most people feel that abuse, physical or mental, should not be tolerated. Family and friends are often the last people to hear about these difficulties, even when they are the best ones to ask for help. There are many Websites offering help and advice about these problems, and I think that you should do some research online. What you must do is look forward to the future with hope in your heart, not with dread. I wish you good luck in the years ahead, and our group will send healing and strength to you. With Blessings, Theo.

 

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Dear Peter, Having read your letter, I can see your problem right away.

Being new to these experiences, you will find many difficulties along the way, one of which is how to control and work with these psychic powers. Yours headaches are most likely to be with you trying too hard to block what is coming through to you. The easiest way to block them Peter, is to concentrate more on what you believe is most important at that time.

As your mind works harder on what you want to do, it should become easier, with practice, to sideslip these thoughts or messages that you are receiving when you don’t want them. Of course, that may not help you when it is time for rest or sleep. What you have to do then is avoid them by willingly pushing them away, or to the side, mentally saying to yourself “ not now, go away, come back later” and seeing in your mind your hand pushing these away, over and over if necessary. As for your problem when dealing with people whom you find you can read quite easily, you must learn to control yourself in these matters. You can learn to recognize which of these thoughts are yours and which are someone else’s, and choose to not say what they are thinking of saying. One slight problem here is that males automatically try to use any advantage over others to further their own ends, (it is a subconscious thing and therefore is not easily dealt with), and may find themselves actively searching for these thoughts or impressions, even though it is not what they really want to do. I believe that this is an instinctive habit brought through from our ancestors, from a time when it was a constant battle for survival, and any advantage at all would be used to further the survival of the clan. You say Peter, that people with emotional difficulties affect you more than others. This is because these people cannot help themselves when they are in this state. They start to broadcast their fears and anxieties when they are searching for help from someone near at hand. In this case, you may find that you have to make a choice here. They may recognize you as being empathic, and will likely look towards you for help of some kind, and it is then than you choose, either to go to them and help, or walk away and ignore them as if you know nothing about their plight. You have received a gift here Peter, but as with any special gift there is a price to pay. You will have to learn how to walk along two separate paths, as two different people, sometimes as a normal man, with the ordinary everyday problems and joys that normal people have, while at other times you have to be different from most other people, with totally different problems, and joys. There is likely to be a few friendships broken before you learn who you can tell what to. Many people will not understand, or don’t want to understand, what is going on with you. Suddenly they may see you as being different, a change in your attitude to people, faith, education, ideas, and governments even. It is not easy when you are different from your friends, because people are natural herd animals, always looking for similarities in others. You must be careful what you tell these people, if anything at all, or you may find yourself pushed out of the group for being too different from them. At the same time, you are likely to find new people who understand and care about you, and wish to help you on your new journey. You will find difficulties along the way, which must be dealt with as they come to you, and you will also find much pleasure when you can help someone that you do not know but needs your help and advice. Being psychic is not the end of the world for you Peter, although it is not the answer to all of the questions either. I hope that this has answered some of your questions Peter, and will help you to deal with these new skills that you are learning to work with.

I wish you good luck on your new path.  With Blessings,  Theo.

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Dear Crystal,

your letter was beautiful thankyou and made me cry not say it made me sad
just touched my soul to have received it today was cool  as have felt little
to no energy ....so basically it came at the right time my name is samantha
and your words were so helpful ....the runes and tarot cards have helped me
get threw the day and my sense of humour has remained intact ...spreading my
wings i have and met a very spiritual man on the net from canada so i know
there is some way to go ...BUT with love and support and a new beleif in
myself i can slowly move forward ..and gueniune friends ...my children give
me strength ....thankyou once again for replying, it was like a breath of fresh
air, much love samantha ....i would be happy for you to allow this reply to
be seen on your healing site xxxxxx

 

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Hello H!  This is Gypsy here answering you today… please excuse my accent (I am from Romania)

I was very interested by your letter, congratulations on development over the last few months!  You will find that life will be so different shortly for you…. concerning the tinnitus…. as there appears to be no underlying medical condition it is quite possible that you are been plagued by this because of in balance within your deepest self….. probably the reason that this has got worse is because you are at the moment working on the 'Spiritual' side of your personality....( sometimes we get worse before we can get better...a Healing Crisis?) and it is most probably connected to the ear Chakra's which fan out behind the ears.  There is no quick fix for this H. but by focusing on that part of your Aura, and perhaps learning how to balance and cleanse Chakra's you will help this greatly to go away…. also my dear I feel that the habit of not listening to inner voice is very much ingrained within you from many years past, perhaps even from when you little girl… is this not so?  My feeling is that perhaps you felt not good enough and so blocked out criticism which is now resulted in this condition for you.  It may be caused by some particular situation when you little girl that you do not presently remember…. my advice to you would be to find a good regression therapists who can take you back into childhood and see if you can unlock memories that are causing you to not listen in your present time. Please be careful who you choose and do so by reputation… and if you find someone who will do it who deep meditation rather than hypnosis you may find this easier and more acceptable H. As regards your son? I feel that this is just a passing phase for him, and that as soon as he finds his 'path' in life he will achieve all that he is destined to. He is hampered right now by his sensitivity, confusion as to 'who he is'  and lack of direction....there is not a lot you can do except to 'be there' for him right now! It will soon pass. I wish you very best for future my dear girl!  And I put you and son on our absent healing list for a month… see if this helps! With Love and many blessings and good wishes to you!  Gypsy x

 

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Dear AJ...Thank you for writing to me,....it is quite usual the strange things to happen when you begin in any sort of psychic development or even interest in psychic development,  and the main thing I want to say to you is that you should not be worried about this!  Nothing bad or difficult is going to happen to you if you're sensible and take things one at a time.

You ask me if you can turn off your psychic ability?....Well not really…. this would be like turning off your sight or your hearing….AJ, it just wouldn't be possible!  But what you can do is to put it one-side if you are busy with other things in your life, for example bringing up your young family. The thing to do is to learn as much as you can from good books about the ‘world of the psychic’, you already have Angel cards and they are an excellent way to begin, but perhaps you should simply be using them for yourself for now and not to read for other people…. when you begin to do so for others then you are opening your self up to all sorts of responsibilities that perhaps you are simply not ready to take on this time.....Like anything else that you suddenly develop an interest in AJ…. take this slowly and enjoy learning about things that you go on.   It seems to me that you are also a healer, and perhaps this would be a better thing to focus on for the moment and all so you will find that it has a knock-on effect with you and will make you feel good......The last thing that I would like to say to you AJ is don't run before you can walk!  Being ‘ psychic’ is not so extraordinary…. most of us are, it simply a matter of degree, some people are more gifted than others and need more encouragement and perhaps to know more about what they are doing… or not doing is the case may be......Take it slowly… one step at a time… enjoy learning about your abilities must keep them to yourself for the moment and perhaps for your immediate family for the moment until you are ready and have more time to devote this in a more specific way....Enjoy your life and your gifts!  With blessings!  Crystal x

 

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dear healers,i have 33 yr old daughter (27/1/72) and a 5 yr old grandaughter.my daughter was in a relationship and when my grandaughter was born he was unfaithful and their relationship broke down and they seperated,my daughter and grandaughter were made homeless futhermore she had to go out to work when the baby was 6 months old because of financial difficulties. i have never seen a person so heartbroken in my life.it was pitiful to see her,she was a shadow of her former self.we gave her love and took care of her and eventually she got back on her feet.6 months ago she almost had a breakdown because she had been seeing her ex secretly,for how long i dont know and he had once again been unfaithful with the same woman.i was shocked that she was seeing him but she has not had so much as a date since they  split up  so  maybe should have been suspicious. recently friends have seen her out with him on more than one occasion so i know she is seeing him again. i want her to be happy whether its with him or alone.i have said that what ever she wants to do i will support and love her.i dont understand whats happening and why,if she loves him,they dont make a go of it.unfortunately i dont feel able to speak to her about it as its her life and her choice but its difficult  her having this secret life and she seems unhappy. what can i do?( he is a virgo) thanks, v.

"dear friends, keep up your good work. its good to know that there are people like you in the world who's only intention is to inform, inspire and heal. if only all of us had such aspirations the world would be a happier place. thankyou.v"  

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I have been married for 18 years and have three children.  My husband and I have not got on well for quite a while now - we argue over so many things.  Recently, he is drinking more and more and has lost all interest in our homelife.  I have no feelings for him - he seems to 'drag me down'.  I feel so, so miserable and unable to make a decision.  He will not leave the house, I would have to take the children and go. I feel overwhelmed by all this and I think it is making me ill - please help.

 

M.