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HI there,
I would be very grateful if the group could help.  I am on my own, unemployed and lonely.
A.


Dear A,

I am so sorry to hear that you're feeling really down and lonely. It is
always really sad when we feel like this. However, sometimes people are
lonely when they have many people around them...but everybody seems so busy
in the world these days....people just don't make time to chat with others.
It appears you may have the solutiont in your hands. I feel that if you had
a little job, even something that is voluntary for now....this would help
you feel better about yourself?! This would also help you find some friends
perhaps, who feel the same way as you do. There are many lonely people like
yourself out there that are crying out for someone to chat to. It's
something we all deal with sometime in our lives.However, sometimes these
times are just more difficult to bear than others.
How do you feel about reading something inspirational? I love books and soft
relaxing music..music without words is the best when we feel tired and worn
out....but if you have a special kind of music you like why don't you try to
relax into the music whilst reading a good book?
At times I tend to be a recluse...althought I'm a very outgoing person.
However, when I fell I need to be alone and in aid of some inspiration, I
usually find a book that I'm really interested in...and get absorbed in the
story. If you can't face reading things that are too absorbing, I could
fully recommend the books called 'Chicken Soup for the Soul' by Jack
Canfield et al. They are comforting , self-help inspirational books....very
short stories...and there are various ones! I personally can recommend
them...as during rough spell in my life I used them as an alminac to enhance
MY soul!! They help with self esteem...and there's one called 'Chicken soup
for the Woman's soul' that may appeal to you. Maybe you need to go to your
local social sevices and let them help you out with self help groups....or
at least they will put you in the right direction. There are people who
specialise in befriending people such as yourself to help your
selfesteem....or you might want to try out this for yourself...befriend
somebody else....there are always people outthere desperate to have a good
soul like yourself....many organisations work on this principle (e.g Age
Concern, Enable ,etc) Please dont feel down A!
You need to heal yourself, and take the giant steps  that will help you find
your 'soul' once again!!
Buy yourself a little 'rose quartz' tumblestone....keep it by you at all
times...this will help heal you and help you to love yourself.
Do something that makes you happy....whatever that may be....a walk in the
woods or park....or by the sea.....sit down for a little while in a quiet
spot...listen to the sounds around you...the birds, the waves or the rustle
of the trees. Find a friend to go with you....or just sit by the fire and
listen to soft music and relax into a chair...close your eyes and let your
mind drift away with the music.
Don't be hard on yourself....remember, we all need love, to give love and to
be loved. But the first persn that can give us that love is ourselves.

Please remember, there are two ways of spreading light ....to be the
candle...or the mirror that reflects it!

I hope this has given you some guidance in helping you move on from your
present position....Please feel free to connect with me again if you feel I
can be of more help and comfort to you?!

Take care of yourself and your journey through life!

Love and Angels!
Arianne x
 

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Dear A. Thank you for your letter. You would be perhaps surprised to know how common your problem is my dear! The problem seems to be that you are going into a realm in which you need to firstly be well grounded...and when you have finished you need to release any inappropriate energy that you have gathered whilst there.

Firstly you need to stop the readings for the moment! and then you need to learn more about things like 'altered consciousness' and 'trance-work' (I believe that you may in fact be entering a light trace state whilst you are doing the readings.)

To be safe you need to know all about these things...and need to prepare yourself before and after readings.

Please look at the page called 'Grounding' on this site. It will give you a better idea of what to do in the future....and altho the page is aimed at healers...they same applies for any 'Psychic or Spiritual' work. Also you should be well connected and aware of your Spirit Guide before you attempt and work of this kind.

Please do not be dis-heartened A. just go back to the beginning and make sure that you have all the tools for the work you wish to do. you might find in useful to ask the same question on our Forum on this site...it is an open forum and has many wonderful people visit it...you should get some excellent advice there! With Love and Blessings! Crystal X

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Dear Core Group      I wonder if there is anything I could
do to change my luck. Ive never been a particually lucky person but since we
moved to this new house 2 years ago in july everything has gone even farther down hill. My relationship with my husband is very strained (he is a cancer) we have financial strain and my son is having a rough time at school. All though this house gives out no bad vibes, I still dont feel it belongs to me. I feel
very lost  depressed and on edge as if I've come to a crossroads in my life. I
would like to write and I wonder if this would be my salvation.
I have always believed that the things you want in life have to be worked
for, but is there something I could do just to push me in the right direct
and change all of our luck even if  ts just a little help
thank you! K.

Dear K.      I'm sorry to hear that you feel really down at the moment. However, this appears to be a passing phase for you. Don't get too disheartened, things will hopefully change for the better soon. I always believe that everybody makes their own 'luck', and we all measure it in different ways. You are very lucky to have a lovely son, whom you love and cherish. I believe that it's perhaps the strain that you and your husband are under financially that has the biggest part to play at this precise time.The stress of moving house, your son having a hard time at school etc, all adds up to making you feel that life's just not what you expected it to be when you moved.

The move, for you was seen as a positive thing to begin with, and since things feel as if they've gone pear shaped, you are feeling this may have had a knock on effect with your husband and everything else that's going on in your life. Please take heart, your husband possibly feels the same way, however, Cancarians have a habit of retracting in to their shell, unable to express their feelings. Since you are an Aquarian, this just feels alien to you.

You are most probably an outgoing person, and have an inner need to
express yourself in some way or another. This may be unfortunate for you that your husband takes the opposite stance. However, don't give up! Go on and write, be creative , or seek a class where you can find like minded people. This can hopefully give you a positive outlook in life again. As the saying goes 'if you need something done..ask a busy person'! It is usually people who have busy lives that are the most positive about life! Why don't you start with writing down all the positive things that have happened to you in your life time, and then list all the negative things...you may be surprised to find that you have many positive things that you did'nt realise
that you had!! As for your son, you don't say what star sign he is, however, children are resilient, but take the time to listen to him. If you feel he needs help with whatever is going on with his life, depending on his age I would suggest you help him with the same. Encourage him to write things down on a piece of paper, or a 'worry book' or bag. Put the worry inside the bag with a pegdoll or 'angel stone' (buy him a little tumble stone (rose quartz is nice!) and ask him to hand his worries over to the 'doll or 'angel' and perhaps this will help him to understand that it's ok to tell other's he is worried about things. If he's older, then give him advice to keep a worry diary, on the same principle as the worry 'angel' theory! As for your home,the things that work for me are, I buy myself some fresh flowers from the supermarket and have small vases around the house where I spend most of
my time when at home, the sittingroom,hall and even a few in the kitchen. It does'nt need to be huge bunches! have some rose quartz crystal in each corner of the sittingroom and this gives the room a welcoming atmosphere whenever I go into it now! You can also use clear quartz, this is a really good way to get the vibrations for your home back to being instep with your own vibrations. It also cleanses the vibrations from the previous owners too.

Just as we leave footprints on the sand, we leave our vibrations on our
homes too, when we leave and move on to another home or land!
Don't be too hard on your husband, he's just trying to adjust too, but being a Cancarian he's much too proud to admit it! Make a meal that you know is both your favourites and sit down with some music that has some meaning to both of you. Try to redress the balance, there is nothing like a calm happy person entering a room to make other's feel that lifes just not so bad as it really feels at that precise time. For yourself, why don't you try some
relaxing music in a calm room,keep it very low key,something you know makes you happy everytime you hear it. There is one song that works for me everytime is, Shania Twain's 'Forever and for Always'. This may appeal to your husband too?!!Most of all, we all need love, to be told we are loved and a little hug and someone telling you 'that everything will be ok, as we have each other and love each other'....especially family members, sends healing to the heart of all humans! I will send you distance healing in my meditation and hope this will be of some comfort to you and your family.I wish you great success with your writing. I hope this advice has given you some direction to happier times in you future lifespan journey! Take care of
your self and your dear ones!

Good luck in your journey through life!
Love and Angels
Arianne x
 

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Dear J. thank you for sending in your problem to the problem page, I am printing it here because in our experience this is a very common problem right now.  Partners that have to go away in the Armed Forces, often suffer this sort of emotional confusion when they are allowed to come home again.  And sometimes we don't understand how difficult it is for them been taken out of their normal everyday life, and put somewhere that can be very frightening, and totally strange.  (Imagine the soldiers that Irene the Far East at the moment, and how they must be feeling)

I believe that you need to give your husband time to recover from his experiences.  He may not even want to talk about what is it doing, and where he has been recently and it may have put your whole marriage and he is relationship with his children totally out of context for him for the moment.  Please understand that this is probably no reflection on you or the children, it is simply that he cannot just pick up where he left off, and carry on as if he had never seen or experienced anything else.  The very fact of being in such a different environment, can change us to such an extent, that going back and living the old life in the old way can seem intolerable for a while.

I think you should not think about leaving him at this moment, you need to give this time, and your husband needs time to settle and recover from his recent experiences.  However I think it's important that you speak to him about this, simply to tell him how unhappy and confused you are!  But try not to get into a ‘ conflict situation’ with him I'm sure he's had enough of that recently already.  Try to be a little more tolerant here and see the bigger picture Jan, give it three to six months to see how it goes, and if in that time you feel that things are not getting any better, then is the time to make the decision about whether this relationship is coming to an end or not.  I wish you all the best to both of you!  With love Crystal.

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Hi. My name is z.  I have had
theories that i may have psychic abilities.like i predict things. i 
see things before they happen. i know what someone is about to say
before they have said it.  sometimes i dream something before it
happens. I can tell when someone is lying or how they are feeling even
though they claim they are feeling something different. I just get
random thoughts/visions and then they happen. Please help. I want to
strengthen my abilities. and use them to help people. how do i do this?
open the door and accept my abilities. Also, I have recently began
acting which i wanted to for a long time. Is this the right path? Any
other things you can receive from me i would appreciate. I just want to
know how to utilize my abilities to help people and i want to see what
direction my life is currently heading in.
thanks
 

Dear Z, thank you for your letter, yes you most definitely have psychic abilities! but I need to warn you here, as a very young Gemini, if you move too quickly in this direction you will burn yourself out.  The sign of Gemini and psychic ability does not always go easy together, particularly if you have a lot of air and fire in your astrological make up.  Take this very slowly one thing at a time, and before you do anything, learn how to ground yourself and how to meditate.  I would suggest that you find some sort of psychic development group or workshop in your area, (and also explore healing and how you feel about that, being attuned to Reiki energy would help to ground you.) not only to learn how to harness and channel your energies, but also to connect with other people who are on the same path.  This is vitally important to you at this stage.  Take it one step at a time, and thoroughly explore your gifts as you go.  It will become apparent to you where your path lies as you do this.  Wishing you love and blessings in your future work, Crystal and the core group

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Dear Silvermoon,  I wonder if you can help me please. I,ve always  managed to work my way through problems in the past, but  for  the last few years, there seem to be so many problems  i,m  confused. The main one is with the man i love so much, Things are so hectic, we dont spend a lot of time together anymore, I don.t know if he still cares for me. I,ve been tempted  quite often to finish it. but, whenever I build up to end it, something happens to stop me. Does he love me? is there a chance for us in the future, or  am i waisting my time and should end the relationship

Dear J, May I firstly apologize for the delay in posting this reply.  Over the past week I have read and reread your letter and have come to the conclusion that though, as you say, you have multiple problems, your main one could be your own feelings of being unable to cope with the ups and downs of life just now.  At our time of life, our changing hormonal levels can adversely affect our emotional well being and in some women, this can lead to depression or anxiety.  This in turn affects the way we deal with stressful situations and our relationships.  If you feel this is making sense to you then I would advise you to have a word with your family doctor. 

Your lack of confidence in your relationship just now could also be compounded by communication problems on the part of both yourself and your partner.  Aquarians are notoriously bad when it comes to expressing emotions and Aquarian men are worse.  You love him too much to really want to end it with him otherwise nothing but nothing would stop you and it is my belief that he loves you too.  It's all to easy to get caught up in the hurley burley of every day life and forget that you need to set time aside for each other.  He's probably feeling just as confused and neglected as you are and hasn't realized that you're feeling the same way.  Be honest with him, tell him how you feel.   Caragh xxx

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I would be grateful if you could assist:
After making a number of very difficult and  life changing decisions, I am
now at a stage when I shall start a new job next month.  It feels as though
I will only stay there a short time and move onto something else - what I
don't know.  Would you be able to guide me please?
It's important to me to know whether  I am growing the way I am meant to.  I also worry about my husband whom I left and wonder if he is growing too and whether we will be partners once again.
These things are very important to me at this stage in life and I thank you for any guidance you are in a position to give....

  
Dear M.  I believe that you are at the beginning of a new cycle in your life, and that is why you feel confused and low. I agree with you, I think that the new job is a means to an end, and that out of it something else will be made possible for you, so even if it doesn't 'feel' quite right at the moment, it may be a good idea to carry on with it and see where it takes you. I believe that you are on your correct life path, and growing as you are destined to do, and it seems to me that a period of being away from you partner (who I feel is also your soul-mate) was also needed to allow you both to grow. (and I believe he is also moving along his pre-destined pathway) I also feel that the connection between you is deep and lasting, and that you will reconnect in time. Try to be a little confidant about life and your decisions....you seem to be very aware of what you need right now!  with blessings! Crystal X

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Dear C.  Your Husband does indeed seem very confused about what he wants right now, and I agree with you, it does appear that he is doing thing is a very strange fashion, especially if he feels that there is still a chance for the two of you. There could be three reasons for his behavior as far as I can see it. (And please bear in mind that I have only brief details to work on)  As a Taurean, your Husband may be taking the line of least resistance, and offering out the possibility of reconciliation so that you will go along with his plans with out too much fuss. The second being that he is obviously under the influence of a very strong and determined woman who is also a Gemini, and is finding it easier to do as he’s told than to rebel, third being that he is simply terribly confused, and honestly doest know how to deal with the situation that he has gotten himself into! My feelings would be that it’s a mixture of the second and third. I also agree with you about his new relationship, whatever it is based on, there seems to be a lot of difficulties, and incompatibilities, that will probably get worse instead of better as time goes on. I can see that this is pure Hell for you! As you are still having the possibility of a relationship dangled in front of you, but the Taurus is often indecisive to a fault! I feel that you have to now make a stand here, at the risk of totally losing him, because if you don’t, you are playing his game, and there will be no respite for you. He may then, even after the divorce try to balance the two parts of his life again, and keep his options open. That would spell disaster emotionally for you all! I think you do know the answer! Time to let go for the moment. This would also probably be the best for your Son, because at his age now, he will be picking up all the uncertainty and grief and is bound to be deeply unsettled by it all. (However, I feel that he is a stronger child than you think, and will come to terms with the partial loss of his father) Time is needed to allow this situation to calm down. It seems as if there is nothing that you can do to resolve or reverse it right now, but I feel that if you take a step back at this point, it may become easier for you. I have the feeling that your Husband really does not know what he wants right now, and is possibly being manipulated by others. Standing back a little may help. We shall add you all to our healing list, and hope that life gets a little easier for you in the coming months!   With Blessings! Theo.

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