PROBLEMS PAGE THREE

can you help me? at the moment I seem to be going through a very tiring and confusing time I have been married for 22 years and have two teenage children. My life seems to in a turmoil, I seem to be looking for answers, But I do not know the questions??? I feel I have spent my life looking for happiness. I feel my marriage is just plodding along I feel it broke down when I had the children. I recently I got together with a guy who I had known for a long time, but t never worked out. I have always been bullied mentally by people at work and at school also by my husband included and now my children. Now reaching my middle 50s I feel I am looking for happiness will I ever find it or am I doomed to just fail. P

Dear P. I am so sorry to hear that you are having such a difficult time at the moment, but I can tell you that this has been a particularly difficult time for you because you are in between life cycles and the moment. Our lives go in cycles of usually nine years, and as we come to the end of a cycle, things can become very difficult. I see from your letter that the difficulties are not all recent, and you tell me that you have always been bullied mentally by people. I think part of the problem here is that you are very psychically open yourself, and you need to learn how to deal with this and to be able to close off to stop people intruding into your space. This can be extremely effective P, and if you could find a psychic development workshop or classes near you, I think that you would find this would help you very much. It seems to me that because this is the end of the cycle it is magnifying all the negative things in your life and making them feel twice as bad as they are, I believe that when you get into the new cycle (which will probably be Midsummer this year) you will feel a lot easier in your mind, and a lot more optimistic about life in general. Please take my suggestion seriously about joining a psychic development workshop P the more you know about your own abilities the easier you will feel with life, and the more you will be able to implement your own life in a more positive way. I do indeed feel that there are good times ahead if you can allow yourself to believe this is so. with many Angel blessings. Angel Rose X

Dear Healer,
I am totally broke with no prospect of getting a decent job or paying off my huge debt. In addition, my husband is divorcing me for another woman. I feel very suicidal right now. I was born on 14 Oct 1970.
What should I do? I cannot think of anything to do to get out of the situation. Soon I would be homeless and penniless as well. I am not looking forward to my future at all.
Please give me some insight into my future and please be frank. I need to know.
Best regards, A.

Dear A. I have looked at your cards, and I believe that if you can get through the coming six months, the tide will turn for you...don't despair!...there is always another day....and your day has yet to come! but in the meantime I believe that you need practical help and advice and so I have asked Kay to finish this letter to you. meantime we will send you healing, remember you are not alone! with Love, Crystal X

Dear A.
It is always difficult when a relationship ends, perhaps more so if it is not entirely our choice; however we should perhaps be more concerned by your debt situation and lack of job prospects at the moment. Firstly I feel you need to establish if the debts you have are solely your responsibility, or were they jointly accrued by you and your husband. If the latter is the case you are not alone in being responsible for them and who ever is acting for you in your divorce needs to be aware of this and ensure your husband takes on his share of any repayments. Rather than letting the worry get on top of you, take action. In my experience most companies that are owed money, would rather receive regular small repayments than nothing at all. With this in mind, I suggest you contact whoever you owe money to and work out a manageable payment scheme with them. Your local Citizens Advice Bureau will help you with this, they offer this service free and are more than willing to help. Whatever you do stay away from the 'Debtbusting' agencies advertised in the press, they will cost you more money.
With regard to the loss of your home; is it a council tenancy or privately owned. Either way get yourself down to your local authority and register with them, explain your situation and they will usually do their best to find you accommodation, even though it may be on a temporary basis in a B & B, this is especially important if you have children.
I know much of this advise is focusing on the practical nature of your problem, but often getting busy can help to put things into perspective and get the ball rolling to take control of your own destiny. With regard to your job prospects, you do not say if you have a profession or not, regardless of this perhaps you could look at retraining, maybe there is some job you have always wanted to try but held back from, many college courses offer financial assistance while learning, especially for mature students. Perhaps this time of re-evaluation and new beginnings is meant to send you off on a new life journey.
You have the power to move on from this difficult time and become stronger for it. Thinking of you, Kay X

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I have been having problems for the past 5 years I have lost my business and my clientele . I have no love relationships, I seem to constantly worry about money problems, I have been to other psychic readers claiming that I have a curse, It was suppose to have been removed, Could I still have it? or was their any to begin with ? I am always depressed not knowing why my life is like this, it seems the more I try to get ahead I always fail, I just want to give up, what should be done?  CDJ

Dear CDJ. I have to tell you that I don't think for a moment that there is...or ever was a curse on you. I can not feel one surrounding you, and I would be able to if it was so believe me! Cursing people is not always very effective and is not usually done unless the person doing it is a ritual magician or voodoo priest of some sort. and even then, if you deny the curse power it will fail! I have proved this time and time again in my own life! We all experience this kind of negativity at some point during our lives, and I feel that yours may be due to a Karmic burden from a recent past life. If this is so, then you have to slowly work your way thro' it, but if you could be a little more positive it would help you. The assumption that quote" I always fail" will not help....I believe that we create our own reality, and that we 'manifest' what we believe. so you need to work on how you see yourself and your life, and try to reverse the trend into positive growth. You CAN do so if you believe that you can. Belief is the key that allows us to open the door to unlimited advantages. and as Spiritual beings we can create all that we need for our lives. May I respectfully suggest two books that may help to empower you in this? they are:- Creating Money, Keys to Abundance. by Sanaya Roman & Duane Packer published by HJ KRAMER INC. ISBN 0-915811-90-X and The Way of Real Wealth. by Mark Waldman. published by ELEMENT. ISBN 1-85230-641-6 With Love and Blessings! Crystal

Dear team, I have been on my own for a little while now and I'm starting to feel quite lonely, especially at night. I have been invited to quite a large social functioning June, and I'm not sure whether not to take up the invitation. I am wary about talking to strangers but know what I need to get on with my life and leave the past behind. I have also got feelings for a close friend who is a Gemini, and am scared that these feelings are more related to my position at the minute. I don't know if anything will ever, this relationship, can you give me some guidance please. Thanks A.

Dear A. Can I firstly say that I am sorry that you're feeling lonely in confused at present. I can only surmise that you have recently experienced some lost in your life. If this is correct, then I feel that you are possibly placing far too high an expectation on yourself at present. Whenever we experience loss and change, it creates a time of one settlement and readjustment, whereby we often re-evaluate what we want for ourselves in the future. Feelings of loss can often rekindle powerful memories of the past, so that we are not only dealing with what has happened now, but are also dealing with unresolved experiences from that past. You say that you are feeling lonely at night, is this why you are contemplating a possible future relationship with your close friend? You also discuss going to a large function but are quite fearful of talking to strangers. Perhaps here, you could ask a friend to attend the function with you. This would at least ease the dilemma of going alone, and not feeling confident of engaging or approaching people that you have not met before. The question of the social function is really only symptomatic of how you presently perceive yourself to be, that is alone, unsure and perhaps fearful of what will happen in the weeks, months ahead of you. You describe the need to get on with your life and put the past behind you A...? I think perhaps you're being a little impatient and unrealistic here, as you cannot hope to rush this process which can take a lengthy period of time perhaps more than you have anticipated. Whilst you are in this uncertain and transient state of being, why don't you allow yourself some healing, be kind to yourself, allow yourself the opportunity to explore lots of other possibilities. Whilst not committing yourself to any one of them, until you feel stronger or more positive that you will make the right choice when the time is right. What you presently want and, whilst feeling vulnerable and alone, you may find you won't want in the months ahead- when you have had time to realize that you have the resilience and strength of mind to overcome your loneliness. I acknowledge that we all want to feel safe and loved, and I'm sure that you will experience this now. But allow yourself this time as it cannot be rushed! Tell yourself that you deserve this time for you, and be open to what happens, rather than trying to control events in order not to be alone. Who knows what will become of your relationship with your close friend? You have already acknowledge that your feelings are mixed, and that your unsure whether these are true feelings for him, or are they feelings that have developed out of your loneliness and loss. Again why don't you allow events to unfold in their own time, enjoy the friendship for what it is, rather than try to place all your future needs in it. You may find that the relationship strengthens and grows, if not you will still have that friendship, while realizing that there are opportunities to explore, new people to meet. I think you need to have a little more faith and trust in yourself A..., as in reading your request are ready feel that you know your own answers. What you need right now, is the reinsurance that you won't be feeling so sad and alone forever, that eventually these feelings will subside and that there is hope in the future. So please be kind to yourself, except help from your friends and allow yourself time to heal. With Love and blessings, Faye (core-group)

Dear team, I hope you can help me with this! I have been going out with a man for nine months now, and I really thought that he was 'the one' but over the past week or so he has changed, and I couldn't understand why? I did wonder if he was attracted to another woman, and then a close friend told me that she had seen him in a pub with my sister! and that they looked very close! I am devastated!!!! I have tackled my sister and she acts as if SHE is the one who is being hurt! and all she can say is that she couldn't help falling for him! am I being unreasonable in expecting more loyalty than this from my sister? it has split the family and done no end of harm. and now they have decided not to see each other again!!! I am wretched as I really love this man. what shall I do???

Dear M. Yes I agree with you, no matter how much your sister was attracted to your boyfriend, he should have been 'off limits' for her! and I can only imagine what harm this has done to the rest of your family. My advise would be to back off for a while until it all calms down. It seems as if it was only a temporary attraction anyway, and this is a common competitive thing amongst siblings. However, I think you need to think carefully about how you view this man now....and if you want to take the risk of a repeat performance either with your sister or someone else! I would say...let the whole situation calm down first for a while, focus on getting yourself to feel better and stronger, and then have a good think about your future, and if you can really see this man in it as a partner?

hi crystal, I'm hoping you can answer my problem for me it is regarding a man close to my heart. I care a lot about him but I'm not sure how he feels about me. We are only acquaintances at the moment . Can you see anything happening here or an I wasting my time my d.o.b is 31st mar 73 his d.o.b is 9th aug 73. I would be very grateful if you could shed some light on this problem for me

Dear S. I took out some cards for you, and I have to say that there could be a possibility of a relationship in the future, although I feel that his attention is more on his work/career at the moment, you may have to play the waiting game and try to establish a close friendship first. However...looking at your astrological information, I have to say there are a lot of potential problems here, and that you are not basically compatible as partners, but having said that....that can always be got around if you are close enough! although with so much fire in a relationship it could get pretty heated at times! Good luck if you decide to go for it Crystal X

Dear Silvermoon, Hello,,, my name is S............. DOB 29th Jan 1968

The last year has been difficult but I have recently been told that
wonderful things lay ahead, (a drastic change for the better, wealth, moving abroad).
I feel any further insight into any of this would be helpful. Is there
anything in the way of these things happening, or will they just come about?
Also, I have been told several times that I have some abilities and feel ready to open up to them.
Thank you for your time.

Dear S. I pulled out a few Tarot cards for you, and yes I agree, things do seem about to open up for you in the future, but I would not expect too much before the middle of next year at the earliest! Also this is a difficult time for Aquarians right now, and will be for the next couple of months. As regards abilities, I feel that you have healing abilities more that anything else, perhaps learning for example, Reiki might help to get you going. Good luck and Blessings! Angelina.

Dear Silvermoon, I've been working for the same company for the past twelve years but just recently I have been doing the job of manager, which is on a trial basis for three months. At the end of this time I have to decide whether or not I want to continue in this post. I am not sure what to do as the commitment is greater and I have two young children and have been married for almost 9 years.

Can you tell me if I am likely to have any more family and will I be in my present relationship for a long time. Also does my future look wealthy. birth date, 08.04.69

Dear F, I think that you have to think very carefully about this....and consider if it is in fact the right time for you, I would suspect, especially after looking at your birth chart that it is not! I think however that you will be able to make this sort of commitment in the future...this may simply not be the right time for you. I feel sure that you will make a success of both your career (finance) and your relationship, it feels steady enough to me! as to more children? I do not 'feel' more at the present, but that does not mean that there will not be more...just that I do not 'feel' any right now. Good luck! Cliff.

Dear Silvermoon, My name is S...... my date of birth is 21/4/71. My problem is my partner and I have been trying for a baby for some time now and nothing is happening. I have 2 children from a previous relationship aged 8 and 11. It really upsets me is there anything i can do to increase our chances?

Dear S, This problem is obviously causing you much disappointment and distress. It seems that the more you want another baby, the higher you build up your hopes and the harder the monthly disappointment hits you and I feel that the resultant stress could be at least part of your problem. You could be trying too hard! Obviously your first course of action is to go as a couple and seek the advice of your family doctor. In the meantime try out some relaxation techniques like yoga, meditation or massage. Also be sure to eat a well balanced diet and take plenty of exercise. By giving your general well being a boost, your chances of conceiving could be increased. Crystal has looked at your birth date, and sees that you are Aries/Taurus, and looking at what she can of your chart she thinks that perhaps this could be part of your difficulty right now, it simply doesn't seem to be the right time for you to conceive. she suggests that you give up on trying right now, at least 'till early Spring next year, and then see if you have any better luck. Remember that if you are destined to have another child you will....and if you are not then you wont, and if this is the case, accept the fact and delight in the children that you have. Good luck. Caragh.

Dear Silvermoon, Over the last six months I have had a difficult time. I lost someone I cared for a great deal and subsequently had to cope with a lot of added pressures from their family. I've had a lot of difficult decisions to deal with and now, just when life looked as if it was going to settle down for me again, it looks as if I may have another uncertain period in my life about to happen. Please can you help me to know if I have made the right decisions so far and what the future will bring. Many thanks.

Dear A. No matter what decisions that we make, and how carefully we to try to do the right thing for ourselves, we encounter difficulties, as in your own case I feel that they are more to do with inevitable change and moving on than with actual physical disruption in your life. I believe that you are, at the moment finishing a cycle of your life, and that the next few months will begin a new cycle, this will inevitably feel disruptive for you, and you may find yourself re-assessing all that is in your life…and finally cutting the ties with some of your past. Yes I do feel that you have made the right decisions so far, and that as a Gemini you have been very perceptive in this. Keep your balance, and know that the future looks so good for you! You have done all that was needed, now all you have to do have faith in yourself and wait. With Blessings! Crystal. X

Dear Silvermoon
I am at a point in my life where i have no
idea where i am going or what i am doing. All i ask is for a little guidance on what the future has in store for me.

Dear C. I have chosen a few cards for you to throw some light onto your question. and was given a fairly clear answer! It appears that you are in the lull before the storm...and that shortly it will be very clear where your direction lies! You seem to be at the point of change....(I would say beginning during this current year)...and change in many areas is on the cards. work being one....relationships being the other. (ultimately even home may change too!) What you have here is new beginnings, which for you as a Taurean will not be easy! Taurus generally speaking likes to know where they are, and is loathed to move out of familiar situations. My advice to you would be:- allow yourself to consider what it is that you love doing most in all the world? and then ask why are you not doing it? in other words, what is your 'birth vision'? I see you being happy and successful in the not too far distant future....but you need to work on firstly letting go of the past that presently holds you, and secondly be brave enough to jump open handed into the future, in the knowledge that "all will be well"! With good wishes and Bright Blessings! Crystal.

Dear Silvermoon, I have recently started a new job and having been at it now for 3 months I wonder if I have made the right decision. I thought it would be my ideal job, but have doubts if I have made the right decision

Dear L. As a Leo, work/career will always be important to you, and if your goal has been set on the sort of job that you have recently got, it is possible that you have seen this as your perfect job without “thinking yourself into it” in other words the reality is proving not to be the same as the vision! I have just taken out three Tarot cards for you, and I have to agree with you, this job does not seem to be fulfilling all its promises for you personally. Might I suggest that part of the problem could be that you are in fact….too nice a person for the job? And that ultimately you could lose more than you gain through sticking it out. Worst of all you may lose self-confidence. My suggestion to you is that you start to look around for something else, and come to terms with the fact that this may simply not be for you. Once you have made this decision you will find that you feel much better, and will be able to cope well with the job until you can change to something more suitable. We wish you bright blessings and lots of luck with your quest! Love Crystal.

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